Brainerd Lakes Real Estate News

Say "I Love You"

fireman    Jonathan Tyrrell was trapped in a burning furniture store, speaking on the phone to the fire department dispatcher who told him help was on the way.  Jonathan was to stay down low and keep tapping on the wall with his hammer.

    "Please don't be long" Tyrrell said, "I've got a wife and kids".  He spoke about that which was most important to him.  Shortly after, he was rescued.

    However, in the same building a group of 9 firefighters were cut off from their escape route and called "Mayday" to dispatchers.  Soon the firefighters realized that they could not be rescued.  A voice was transmitted over the radio saying, "I love you".  It may have been one speaking on behalf of all the others, but whoever spoke the message was clear - with his last words he wanted his love communicated to the people he cared for.

    Next a prayer was  spoken over the radio ending with "In Jesus name, amen.".

The radio went silent.

Nine firemen died. 

 

Do you make it a practice to tell others that you love them, appreciate or admire them?  We need to be more open and not wait until they are the last words.  Words of affection, sincerely spoken, should be part of our daily communication.

 

I can do better -  maybe you can, too!!! 

 

 

 

                                                                                                  photo by kiwi NZ
 

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Comments

Kathleen, such a sad story. I couldn't get out of the house without a kiss, hug and an ' I love you' from my dad. It's the same with my girls to this day. You never know if the last time you see someone is the last time.
Posted by Debbie Malone, Realtor Lynchburg, Smith Mountain Lake VA (RE/MAX 1st Olympic Realtors) over 2 years ago

We can all always do better Kathleen and do need the constant reminders, as you've given here. There is nothing else tha matters more.

And Debbie, I'm certain with that kind of input in your life, that's why you're the marvelous person you are! 

Thanks Kathleen

Posted by Deborah Pearce (Living Spaces Interiors & Home Staging) over 2 years ago

 Debbie - I visited my Dad in the nursing home for lunch and that night he died.

You never know if the last time you see someone is the last time.
Posted by Kathleen Lordbock Keller Williams Realty Brainerd Lakes ( KW REALTOR/Staging & Short Sale Specialist) over 2 years ago
Deborah - thanks for checking in , I am reminding myself as well.
Posted by Kathleen Lordbock Keller Williams Realty Brainerd Lakes ( KW REALTOR/Staging & Short Sale Specialist) over 2 years ago
Hi Kathleen -- wow, this drives it home in a powerful way.  Three words of such power and lasting meaning, I love you.  Jesus had the same for us when He died, "It is finished."  God bless you for your sensitive post.
Posted by Terry Rasner-Yacenda (Broker Owner - Sellstate Dreams Realty) over 2 years ago
 Terry,  What love that He should die for me - blessings right back at you
Posted by Kathleen Lordbock Keller Williams Realty Brainerd Lakes ( KW REALTOR/Staging & Short Sale Specialist) over 2 years ago

GREAT post, Kath!!!

How many are able (EVERYONE) to communicate this to everyone they care about...how many do?

Posted by Chicago, Illinois homes for sale ---- Alexander Harb (My Real Estate Referral L.L.C.) over 2 years ago
Alexander - You are right - if we all just did what we were able to do and then let the other things that we can't do go ................................
Posted by Kathleen Lordbock Keller Williams Realty Brainerd Lakes ( KW REALTOR/Staging & Short Sale Specialist) over 2 years ago

This is something that has been on my mind lately,  Enjoy the moment and hug your loved ones for we never know what will happen tomorrow! Having lost family to sudden unexpected deaths, sometime I try to remember to not take my loved ones for granted.... But as for PMS week,, there is no guarantees.

 Thank God , Jesus died for our sins!

Posted by Mary Thomas PV,RB,MB,Torrance,Pas, Arc,SM REALTORĀ®* ( Palos Verdes, Manhattan Beach,Pasadena,Arcadia & Mon) over 2 years ago
 Mary, OK  - I understand the opt out clause  for PMS week  :-)
Posted by Kathleen Lordbock Keller Williams Realty Brainerd Lakes ( KW REALTOR/Staging & Short Sale Specialist) over 2 years ago
OMG! What a story!!!! I certainly could do better on the I love yous... What a reminder.
Posted by Lindsey Hasford (Coldwell Banker Vision) over 2 years ago

It is a true story - so sad.

But we can all do better.

Posted by Kathleen Lordbock Keller Williams Realty Brainerd Lakes ( KW REALTOR/Staging & Short Sale Specialist) over 2 years ago
Kathleen--Great post.....When I had my first child, my brother gave me only one piece of advice..."Make sure you tell him you love him everyday." I do, and always will. My other half is a fireman...I have thought about this scenerio...I try not to think to hard.
Posted by Robin Lundholm Cape May Vacation Homes (Jersey Cape Realty, Inc.) over 2 years ago

Kathleen, what a great post and a great reminder.  Life is so short and so precious, we never know when it will be our last to say everything we want to say.

 

Posted by Gary White~ Grand Rapids Homes for Sale, FlexIt Realty, a call or click away! (Flexit Realty~Serving West Michigan) over 2 years ago

Robin - there you go, tell them and show them everyday so there is never a doubt. - thanks.

My dad was a volunteer fireman for 45 years. 

Posted by Kathleen Lordbock Keller Williams Realty Brainerd Lakes ( KW REALTOR/Staging & Short Sale Specialist) over 2 years ago
Gary - tell them now and keep right on telling them, until you can't anymore.
Posted by Kathleen Lordbock Keller Williams Realty Brainerd Lakes ( KW REALTOR/Staging & Short Sale Specialist) over 2 years ago

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